A weekly check-in can handle next Tuesday. A monthly conversation can handle whether your current arrangement still fits your lives. Keep the two separate so that every small planning chat does not become a referendum on the future.
Compare your current expectations
Ask how each person feels about visits, commitment, communication, and the likely duration of distance. Name any assumption that has changed. You do not need matching certainty, but you do need to know where uncertainty exists.
Look at the practical direction
Discuss which future questions have become clearer and which need research. A job possibility or family obligation may change the options. Avoid measuring progress only by whether a move date has been chosen.
Choose the next conversation
Some decisions need time, outside information, or professional advice. Record what you will revisit and when. Leaving with a specific next step is more useful than forcing agreement because the call has already lasted an hour.
Ask “What are we assuming about the next six months that we have not actually said aloud?”
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